You have to get in your bones that when you are talking and thinking about money – you are usually not talking and thinking about money. The conversation and thoughts are about value. All day long you are trading value.…
The Emotional Charge of Money
In our society we learn about money mostly from our parents. We grew up around a lot of conversations about money, and some of these conversations were very “serious and important” and would have held a strong emotional charge. Particularly…
Stop Trying To Make Money
Do you spend a lot of your time making money, trying to make money, or even thinking about making money? If so I suggest you stop. It is a screwed up context. Why is it a screwed up context? Well,…
Wealth, Value, Money
A couple of months ago, while working with a client I had an incredible breakthrough. During the conversation, something came out of my mouth and I thought “wow… that was genius”. I went back home and spent the next 3…
It's All About The Experience
Life is all about experiences. What else are we here for? We have around 70 years on this planet to experience life in this realm so we may as well make the most of it. Or were you taught that…
Opening Up to Life
In life, things are going to happen that will close you down. You can’t help it. It is part of being alive. Your partner fails to see your light and dumps you. Your boss fails to see your greatness and…
The Gift of Freedom
In life mostly we are not taught that freedom is important. Certainly not as important as producing results. In fact in today’s society we are taught to give up our freedom for results. The problem is that we have it…
The River
Life is not static. People think they have to cause things to happen in life. They don’t. Well not like cause and effect. “I do this to make that happen”. There is a flow to life. You have to start to see…
Having Sex v Brushing Your Teeth
A couple of years ago I went for a singing lesson. what I thought would be a straightforward hour ended up being one of the most extraordinary experiences of my life. The singing lesson started with a meditation. Maybe it…
Do you have stones in your shoes?
Growing up in Scotland many years ago I wasn’t that big on personal development and the like. It wasn’t really done. When in my late 20’s, a girlfriend told me to go and see a chiropractor I thought she was…